Pride and honor

There is a thing called pride and honor that most Americans might think they know a thing or two about. They may even hang the flag and take it down at dusk every night or properly illuminating it at night as the flag code states. You may find that Memorial Day and July the 4th they actually celebrate by being patriotic and waving their flag and meaningfully singing a song in remembrance and not just having a barbecue or party for the sake of another good time. And what about Flag Day, June 14th. This day just comes and goes and most no one knows. At least i haven't since i learned about in Highschool.

Until you have seen a Norwegian embrace their country and where it has come from and what it is today, you have never truly seen what patriotism is! In all my 32 years of being alive in the US of A, I have never seen so much passion and pride as i have seen in this country the few times I have been here. I can not imagine being here on their nations holiday. I have heard the stories told over and over again. How they all get dressed up in these national costumes that represent the different areas of Norway that they are from. Then they parade in the main area of town waving their flags and if you live in Oslo, you parade in front of the King and Queen waving to them as well! The schools are all going as groups to parade together as well. The pictures are very telling of this very exciting day! I hope one day to witness this glorious day!

Whenever I have been here for a birthday i have noticed that they take a small flag in hand and wave it as they sing and then place it on the table by the cake.

This is a photo of Jon David's birthday cake that his mom made him while she was in the states. She put miniature Norwegian flags all over it!

The picture at the top is the only one i got,(wish i had a better one) that somewhat represents the way we were greeted as we arrived here. Every visit i can remember, Jon David's mom has come waving the flag and had flowers in some way. This time as we walked up she crowned me with this beautiful wreath that you see on my head and a sweet kiss on the cheek. I am always amazed at how honored i feel in this family, house and country!

Why does it feel so unusual and sweet to me. We have love, we have honor and we have such passion at home. What i do feel is a fresh new wave coming over me and blowing all around me the whole time i am here. It is the Pride part..i think. It is pure and honest. It is not corrupt or selfish. It is pride in the whole and not in the individual.

I haven't really grasped all that my head is trying to wrap itself around in this, but, i am touched and i wish i could take this refreshing thing that is touching me so deeply and put it in my pocket to take home with me, to then share with you!

Now that i think about it, i guess i am. That is what i am here to do. Gather and take what i can! I think that is all for now. Maybe, more on this later.

We made it!

This is how ethan looked most of the trip, except when he was sleeping!

Jet lag got the better of him........

What a wonderful journey this has been. We have traveled so far and it has not been as hard as i thought. Ethan did great on the trip over and has adjusted well to the new time zone. It took him about a week but he was never up all night or anything so i am absolutely pleased! Our trip over here was full of challenges and yet we were happy and ethan was awesome. So, it is of no matter since we had joy, felt good and were able to rest too. Now we are living the good life of eating, drinking in good company and taking it easy most of the time. Our days so far are filled with hiking, napping, eating, eating, eating and eating as well as a lot of talking a little swimming and just watching the babies play together! I feel like i am growing into a hot air balloon by all the meals we are having. So much for loosing weight on this trip. This week is Jon David and I´s 8th year anniversary and we are not together. He and his dad, terje, and brother-in-law, Martin are working on Terje and Berit's bedroom. Me and Hannah-gudvieg, Jon David's sister , and Berit, his mom, went to Bo, Norway for the week. This is a very beautiful place hat reminds me of Colorado a bit. It has all the lush green, great mountains and a little college town (as college town as your gonna get in Norway, i suppose). They have a lot of concerts in the summer and none while i am staying here, of course.

Today is the 4th of July and i am happy to say we will be celebrating it! They are so great here. Congratulating me on our country's special day and wanting to celebrate the way we would, with out the fireworks, of course. So, what to do?

We will go on an excellent hike in the mountains! I can't wait! Then we will have a barbecue and smores. Smores is something they have only ever had one other time i was here about 8 years ago. They are very excited and so am i! Not the healthiest thing to introduce but, fun.

I can't wait to show you pic of some of the traditions here. I do love this country and family more and more every time i am here! What a special place.

sentimental hoo ha

I have been going through so many different emotions as we near Ethan's one year birthday. I am happy, I am sad, I am regretful, disappointed, jealous of others, excited, festive, depressed, getting baby fever and truly exhausted!
I look at him and still have the same feelings I did when we brought him home. Could he really belong to us? How could he be so wonderful, so cute, and how could all these wonderful things about him pass me by so quickly?
I just feel like I let the special things in each month pass me by without really getting to notice them, enjoy them and soak them up before a new thing would happen. I really don't want to forget any of it, AT ALL! He is such a treasure and he brings me so much joy. Sometimes I just wish the demands of life would stop. Other people would seize to exist and he could have all my attention. Truth is, that even when he does, I am distracted in some way.
so, I will soak him up now and remember all his sweetness, his cuteness and the joy he brings me!

Fun things he does
Ethan has always had this really unusual laugh that no one else has heard before. It sorta sounds like some one making a long AAAAAAAAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa sound and tapping their voice box at the same time. He will make this laugh while playing, in his car seat, on the changing table, while eating or whenever. He does it to show his pleasure in something. He has a totally different and very adorable laugh for when he is completely lost in it and giggling histarically.
I Remember how sweet it was when he would wake up early in the mornings and i would nurse him in bed and I could feel his body begin to give into sleep again and be heavy in my arms.
He also use to lay on the changing table (before he learned to crawl) and just laugh and play. He loved his changing table! That was when he came alive the most!
When he was first learning "peek a boo" he would crawl right up to me and bow his head quietly for a moment and then lift his head quickly with laughter and bright eyes. That was his way of saying, "peek a boo". SOOOOOO, cute.
One of my favorite memories was when all three of us were laying in bed on a Saturday morning. It was way too early for us all to be up and Jon David and I were trying to rest while keeping one eye open to watch Ethan. Suddenly i heard what sounded like clapping. I focused in and sure enough Ethan was just sitting there, clapping away. It was his first clap and it was as if to say, "come on you guys, let's play!" He loves to clap.
He claps for many things through out the day. He even claps while he is getting to sleep and when he is asleep. He claps a lot, come to think of it!
I miss how he would crinkle up his nose and pucker his lips a little opened and breath out his nose really hard.Just to be cute.
I love the today's too though!
How he loves to drum and shake,shake, shake. He bops his body left to right and waves his arms in a dance. He is so beautiful!
Every time we say, "praise Jesus" he raises his hands high above his head and waits for us to follow. It is a little game that started awhile back. He had the whole room imitating him and he just LOVED IT!
I love how I can hear him when he is excited making his way down the hall and into the kitchen, with such a thunderous crawl. I often have to look just to make sure it isn't someone else with him...he's just one baby and he sounds like an army!
















I love how he says mama.
I love days like today, where he just seems so happy to be alive, playing by himself and talking with that sweet "AAAaaaaaaaaaa", voice. He spent his whole lunch time with me going thru different hand motions he has learned ( i didn't even know he knew how to do, by the way). He waved with both hands, at himself and then just one at me. Hee, hee! For the first time ever, he blew kisses at me and he instigated it! He clapped, waved, blew kisses and praised Jesus. It was the best lunch i can remember!
Oh, Ti's sweet to have a little one that the Lord has entrusted you with, that belongs to you, looks like you (well, one of you , anyways) and is all his own person. I love him! I treasure him. I am happy for this day! I am grateful for such an honored gift from the father. I just want to wrap him all up in my love even though he won't let me and keep him and all his cuteness with me, always.
Well, this helped! Really, it did. Just to get it out there, ya know? I feel so much better and ready to recieve the day that we celebrate his birth! His Birth! Wow, I really have come full circle. I can now say that the day of his birth holds more than just pain! I will have to share some day soon, maybe this week, how God has changed the pain and ashes to beauty!

I think i will sing off now. This has to be the longest blog yet.

These are a few of my favorite things!

Ethan loves drumming, dancing, eating and playing with auntie Kristina!

I love this age!

Ethan was about to be 10 months in this photo. Now he is about to be 11 months. Months mean EVERYTHING in baby age!
He had a bad butt rash so, i let him go comando on the kitchen floor for about 30 min or so. I also, cleaned up his pee 4 x i think. I thought if he has gone once he will have gotten it all out and be done! NOPE. I guess boys are like dogs. He proceeded to make is "mark" in every new area he crawled to.
I had to laugh!


Yeah, Aunt Dria finally came to visit. Ethan and her really are kindred spirits!We had so much fun and always do!


I am taken by this face! He gets me every time. So, sweet, so adroable and so much fun!

Traveling with Stars

This is Ethan's fun, happy, clever and highly entertained with himself, laugh! He is about to be nine months in this video. He is 10 months on the 11 of this month!

New Hair!

BeforeJon David's mom, Berit, made this outfit! Isn't he sooooo cute!

And after....

I love this new do! It is so fun and easy! Now the european in me is totally READY for this summer! Yippy!